Happy Valentine’s Day, Hilltoppers! The Trumpet’s very own Campus Cupid is here to answer some of your anonymous questions about self love, relationships, and the best ways to spend the day.

Q: Growing up queer, I feel a bit behind in the dating/relationship department. Do you have any ideas on how to better enjoy Valentine’s this year (single!)?

Campus Cupid: Ahh, feeling a little behind is perfectly normal and totally untrue. Everyone has their own timing. I think the best way for you to spend Valentine’s Day this year is to be mindful of all the friends and family you love and celebrate them. You could also specifically set aside time to love yourself and do something creative, relaxing, or just things you’ve been meaning to get to. Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to mean just loving a partner; it could be neighbors, the Earth, pets, anything. Have a ~lovely~ day!

Q: I’m in love with my best friend, but I can’t tell him… Maybe if he reads this, he’ll know who it’s about and get the courage to say something!

Campus Cupid: Ooh juicy! Having dealt with many situations like this as Cupid, I can say that I hope he “ruins” the friendship!!! If there is chemistry, it can happen. Good things come with great patience, and patience is a virtue. I’m rooting for you both. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Q: Help! I ordered my girlfriend’s Valentine’s gift and it came in today, but it was completely broken and I have to send it back. What are some good last-minute gift ideas so I can surprise her?

Campus Cupid: Oh no! I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope that my ideas are good for your situation:

The immediate go-to is a love letter, pouring out your utmost adoration for her. You could also just pamper her for the day, making her dinner and playing games, or watching her favorite movies. Explain that you did buy something so she understands why there isn’t a physical gift. You could also always make a quick scrap book with pictures and momentos! You can utilize the Center for Arts and Education if you’re on campus for this. Good luck!

Q: How do I celebrate Valentine’s Day in a long-distance relationship?

Campus Cupid: Well, distance makes the heart grow fonder. I think one of the best ways to connect is just calling and spending time really talking intimately. You could also dress nicely and make dinner separately, but eat on FaceTime in your living space. Sending gifts in the mail to open together over FaceTime also is a fun way to see the happiness in their eyes on your special day.

Q: Dear Campus Cupid, I keep getting told that I’m a baddie but nobody seems to be hitting me up? Am I chopped? Or am I intimidating? Please answer!

Campus Cupid: Not to worry, my dear! I am sure you are not “chopped” or intimidating, but rather you have good sets of standards for yourself. I am sure that in due time, you can find someone who suits your needs and wants. And, don’t be afraid to put yourself out there! It can seem scary, but love hides in all sorts of places. Best of luck!

Q: Hi Campus Cupid!! Do you think soulmates are real?

Campus Cupid: Hello lovely, I absolutely do! I think that everyone has one, but they can be in many forms. Or, there can be more than one soulmate. My soulmate is my best friend and partner, and I love them more than anything. But, not everyone will need the same type of soulmate. Some can find the tie they have through friendships, family, or pets.

Q: I need some ideas for a fun Galentine’s night. Can you help me out?

Campus Cupid: Of course! Campus Cupid is on the case:

Many types of crafts can be very fun, like decorating something or making sentimental items/jewelry. Personally, I think photobooth pictures are really fun to take, and having a PowerPoint Night is always a hit. Art is always a good thing to try as well, and the option of going out on the town is also a good one. Have so much fun with your friends this weekend!

Q: Hey Cupid, I have a crush on someone on campus, but I am worried we won’t have anything in common if I try to talk to them. How can I start a conversation?

Campus Cupid: Hi! I think the best way is to simply compliment them and try to have it in common. For example: “I like your shoes! Where’d you get them?” and when they reply, “oh I haven’t tried there yet/I love that store/I didn’t know they had such good finds!” Then, you can ask them if they have any other recommendations. This especially works if they have a fun pin or clothing
item with something you like on it, like Pokemon or a band. And, you can try a few times until eventually you’re talking all the time. Good luck, and be courageous!

Thank you for submitting your questions! Both Campus Cupid and The Trumpet’s staff wish everyone a fun and safe Valentine’s Day.